I don’t know about You but sometimes big decisions really make me feel delicate, as if the Decision will make or break me.
I really am perplexed. I do not like to feel delicate or that I could shatter if I make the wrong decision. This fragile mental state is scary to me.
When I am faced with a decision, one person in particular feels it is their place for input. Other’s opinions about delicate decisions makes me doubt myself. So now I have the 2 D’s Delicate and making Decisions.
So faced with the 2 D’s. I do not feel alone because I feel like many people get faced with the 2 D’s. I find myself questioning myself at first.
The more I dwell on the 2 D’s I am getting stronger in who I am. I am owning the Decision, it is mine. In the end, I will be the One who has to live in the Delicate Decision. It is a form of vulnerability when your Inside Self is being tested by your Outside Self, the Decision.
When I was younger, I used to be an independent, almost rebellious kind of girl. Now due to my background, I act Strong and Outspoken in an effort to hide the Delicate Woman I am.
When someone is hurt time and time again, we tend to build an invisible wall which protects that Delicate part of us. However, this wall will protect the Delicate you, but it will also prevent others from coming inside. You push away those who those who know the Real Delicate You.
I still am pondering this Delicate Decision. Age has taught me not to make fast decisions. As my Nana used to say ‘Haste makes Waste’ and I do not want to waste any time on the wrong decision. I have learned to protect the delicate person. I invite the people who have proven themselves trustworthy Inside because I need their help..
Well, I guess what I am trying to say is: If you act tough to protect the Delicate person you are, I understand. Decisions enter our lives every day, some little, some big.
But if you put up a Wall and do not let trustworthy others help you make the right Decision, how will you know what you may have missed. Possibly this Decision could be a game changer. One that opens doors you could have only wished would open.
Is it scary? Yes. Give the Delicate person Inside Have a VOICE. The Decision you make is that VOICE. You are stronger than you think and you are capable of making Life-Changing Decisions.
It really is OK to be Delicate even in the world we are in now. It is not a weakness. Being Delicate is a character trait that is Beautiful. Be the Beautiful Delicate Decision Maker. Who knows where it will take You.