TORN BETWEEN TWO LOVERS. Doesn’t it sound like someone in love? What I am bringing to the forefront is the struggle we are forced to deal with when others question us about WHO WE HAVE CHOSEN TO BE AS AN INDIVIDUAL. Torn Between Two Lovers is One of the Most Painful Situations to Find Yourself.
Being Torn feels like being pulled by both arms by two people or situations You REALLY care about. What stands in the middle is You and a Decision. The Decision You must make is Which One do I Pick? The questions that come up are: Which One needs me more, which one do I need more? Can I live without One or other? Do I have to choose or can I continue living with both? If someone is requesting You to Change and be Torn Between Your Own Values be careful. Your Loyalty is to Yourself First.
Well, in this dilemma there is no HAPPY medium. A decision either way is going to be painful. Choosing One over the other is going to hurt. What I want to bring to the front lines is that it hurts YOU the most. Making this decision is torment.
Being in Love whether a relationship, a child, a family member or a friendship should NOT require you being TORN APART INSIDE between the Real You and the You they are requiring You to Become. To stay True to Yourself is the determining factor. If that standard is questionned to be lowered do not even consider choosing. Take it as a WARNING to get out. Walk away and be proud of Yourself. You should not have to question where your LOYALTY IS…..if anyone challenges who You are to be Loyal to, they are toxic.
Being Torn by any two decisions in life can break Your heart. It is like sacrificing the Best for Second Best. Because if You Choose the Best and it comes with baggage or extra-ordinary demands from You that should not have to be made that is WRONG. If You have to bend Your own rules to make the decision that is WRONG.
I SINCERELY HOPE THIS HELPED SOMEONE…..I AM CURRENTLY FACING THIS SUBJECT and I have finally been able to find peace. Everyone may not agree with me and that is OK. I may end up with enemies because of my decision TO NOT BE TORN, but I still have ME.
What good am I to anyone IF I TEAR ME IN HALF???